What are Baptism Promises?
Baptism promises are the formal declarations made by parents and godparents during the baptism ceremony. They express a commitment to raise the child in the Christian faith and support their spiritual growth throughout life.
In a Catholic baptism, these promises take the form of a series of questions put to the family by the priest. The responses affirm a rejection of sin and a belief in the core tenets of the faith.
Who Makes the Baptism Promises?
Both parents and godparents make the baptism promises together. They speak on behalf of the child, who is too young to respond for themselves.
This shared responsibility is central to the ceremony. It acknowledges that faith is passed on through community and family, not just formal religious instruction.
What Do the Promises Involve?
The promises typically cover two areas: the renunciation of sin and the profession of faith. Parents and godparents are asked whether they reject evil and whether they believe in God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit.
Each question is answered with a clear affirmation, usually the word "I do." The gathered congregation may also be invited to affirm their collective support.
Baptism Promises in Non-Catholic Ceremonies
In Anglican, Uniting, and other Christian traditions, the baptism promises follow a similar pattern but may use slightly different language. Some ceremonies also include a direct address to the parents about their responsibilities at home.
Regardless of denomination, the intention is the same: to mark the moment publicly and with intention.
Why the Promises Matter
The promises are more than liturgical formality. They are the heart of why families gather. For many parents, speaking those words aloud in front of family and their faith community carries real emotional weight.
Having those moments photographed quietly and without interruption allows families to return to them long after the day has passed.
Preparing for the Baptism Promises
Most parishes provide families with a copy of the responses in advance, either through preparation classes or in the order of service booklet. Reading through them beforehand helps parents and godparents feel composed and present on the day.
If you are unsure what to expect, speak with your priest or celebrant at your preparation meeting.